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shedding my ego

Posted at 17:00 on 15 Jul 2008 by Pandora / Blake

Tags: meta-analysis, Spanking and bondage porn

Beautiful and Depraved posted recently about a new 'postmodern' porn project she's working on. It looks intriguing, and I'll certainly be keeping an eye out for new developments. But I was particularly struck by her description of the power sexual submission has for her:

This blog is about beauty and depravity. How kinky, wild and outrageous sex can be incredibly self-actualizing. How acknowledging our deeply sensual selves can change our lives. How having my pussy in the air for 40 minutes and having someone photograph it (on Helmuts desk) causes me to lose all traces of self-consciousness. Through these experiences, something in me changes alchemically. I lose my ego. This point is at the heart of every wild sexual thing particularly every wild sexual submissive, exhibitionist thing Ive ever done. I lose my ego and I can get back to being myself, unobstructed.

Its soul Pilates: According to practitioners, the central aim of Pilates is to create a fusion of mind and body, so that without thinking about it the body will move with economy, grace, and balance. The end goal is to produce an attention-free union of mind and body. (wikipedia) And so it is with me shedding my ego: I can function without self-censoring. All my actions come forth spontaneously and I dont think about who I have been or who I should be. I can just be.

This is what compels me to blog about my sexual experiences to share about the power in them: the em-powerment. Further, its whats compelled debauchette and I to create this venue: to house a space that gives permission. To publish kinky shit, beautiful cunts, dirty thoughts and unspeakable fantasies. To en-courage, to act on courage and to grow from it.

I couldn't have put it better.


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