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Posted at 15:57 on 16 Sep 2009 by Pandora / Blake

Tags: dominance and submission, F-F, meta-analysis, other pictures

I'd hoped to write today about the erotic scene I played with Tom at the weekend, but work is mental at the moment, so I won't get the chance today. Partly this is because, after the ease with which I wrote yesterday's post, I woke up this morning feeling unaccountably uneasy about its explicitness. As Adele pointed out on Twitter - this is my blog, and as the "not silenced" of my title suggests, I shouldn't censor myself. But detailled writing about sex is rare for me, and when I attempt it, it leaves me strangely vulnerable. Not that sex is more intimate than spanking, but sex-writing isn't my idiom, and attempting it involves stepping somewhat out of my comfort zone.

I guess I'm also partly worried I'm stepping out of yours. And I'm not sure, if I am, whether I care. Eroticism is very much part of my kink, and explicit sexual content is deliberately included in the spanking material I'm producing for myself. Some scenes need to be asexual to work - anything institutional and non-abusive - but I think there's a place in spanking porn for sexual scenes as well, and not just the leery uncle or giggly girl-on-girl kind. I want to see hard, violent, D/s sex between real lovers, and given my own sex life frequently combines that with hot CP, I don't see why they should be separated by default in porn.

Anyway, I didn't come on here to go on about sex in spanking porn. I wanted to repost this delicious F/f photo which Chross linked last week, from free spanking photos:



I'm still trying to work out how to combine my queerness with my kink in a way that works for me, and when I stumble across a lesbian D/s photo that presses all my buttons, I devour it. I love the cool poise of the top, her tiny half-smile. I love the emotion in the sub's posture, her twisting back, the hand resting calmly on the back of her neck. I can definitely imagine myself over this lady's knee. And not only is that a hot, hot thought, it renews my hope that one day, I will find a way of submitting to women that feels right.

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