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pleasant surprises and e[lust] #12

Posted at 16:19 on 4 May 2010 by Pandora / Blake

I got back from my shoot with Spanked in Uniform last week to discover several pleasant surprises. Some lovely emails which made me feel loved and appreciated, including a smile-inducing email from Mike, the brains and hands behind SIU whom I had a brilliant time working with. I know this is public so I should say he's terribly stern and scary so as not to damage his reputation as the Dastardly Dutch Disciplinarian or whatever, but he's an absolute sweetheart, so I won't. I had a great time filming with them, and the residual bruising on my bottom (from HAND SPANKING. Hand spanking! Bruises! I'm utterly thrilled by the novelty) is a testament to how stern and scary he can be in scene. But mostly he's a sweetheart. I can highly recommend Spanked in Uniform to any models who are considering working for them.

The biggest surprise when I got back to the UK last week, though, was that my post was selected for the top three picks in the latest edition of e[lust]. Which is nice! Slightly weird that better posts (in my opinion) haven't been, and this one was dashed off in a bit of a hurry, but I guess it's similar to the student phenomenon of last-minute essays getting better marks than ones you slaved over for days. Anyway, I'm not complaining. Many thanks to everyone who chose my post - it was a lovely homecoming and put a huge smile on my face :)


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Europe Airlines

Posted at 18:21 on 6 May 2010 by Pandora / Blake

I arrived in Rotterdam for the Spanked in Uniform shoot at 10am their time, having got up at 5am my time in order to catch my flight. I don't fly often these days - I try to keep it to a minimum for environmental reasons - but I love doing it. I never get tired of the belly-fluttering feel of take-off; I always bag a windowseat and watch the landscape receding, laid out before me like a giant, real-time, high-definition Google map. I love watching the colours change in the sea as the plane sweeps over the coast, and I love lifting above the clouds and watching the dazzling play of sunlight and wind across that strange, shifting landscape.

So it was kind of cool, in a way, that my first ever airline stewardess role was filmed only a couple of hours after my first flight in a year. The setting was still fresh in my mind, and it was far easier to imagine the airport environment than it would have been the week before.

The first clip we filmed was my Birchrod Inn episode (we ended up doing a second the next day - the first should be up on the website on Monday), in which I was playing a dominant character who was outraged at the treatment she received. I enjoyed getting to mouth off a bit and throw my weight around (even more fun to be flung over Mike's lap as my character got her comeuppance!) but for the next film, I wanted to play a softer spoken character, a bit less loud and arrogant.



We'd brainstormed scene ideas by email before the shoot, and I'd suggested using the current affairs theme of the Icelandic ash cloud, grounding all the flights. (I was worried that this might date the clip quite quickly, but given the news this week it looks like the theme might stay relevant for most of the summer - a mixed blessing!) We decided on a plotline where stewardess Pandora was given the job of placating the angry passengers whose flights had been cancelled. She lost her temper with a customer, got stressed out by the whole thing and decided to go home with a headache. Unfortunately, her boss caught her as she was leaving in her plain clothes, and insisted she stay on duty during the emergency. He told her to change back into her uniform and get back to her shift, but first, she had to report to him in his office for a 'conversation' about her attempt to skive off when things got tough. You can imagine what direction it took...



I'll tell you now that I got a huge thrill from wearing the uniform. It was very pink - not my colour - and a bit more Thunderbirds than airline, but I loved it; loved the jacket, the hat, the white stockings and gold trim. The suit was somewhat too tight, there being only sizes small and large in the wardrobe, and me being a very definite medium. Luckily, the fabric stretched just enough that I could tug it over my hips, resulting in a very tight and short skirt which I could barely walk in. Maybe it was Mike's positive comments, but rather than feeling too fat for the outfit, I felt slinky and professional and kind of turned on. What can I say, I love dressing up - and I love dressing up in the clothes that a top has picked out for me even more.

This was the first time I'd been spanked while wearing a jacket and a hat, and there was something delightful about it. It was businesslike, formal, and at the same time normalised. Just another day at the Europe Airlines office - no need to take your jacket off, you'll be back to work in twenty minutes, with your bum hot and throbbing under your tight tight skirt... Yum.



At the time, I felt like the dialogue in this scene fell a little flat, and when I mentioned my concerns Mike said he thought so too, but he was sure it would be fine. The next morning when I got back to the location from my hotel room, he led me into the office and said "I've got a surprise to show you." He astonished me by showing me this Europe Airlines clip, in more or less its final form. He'd thrown it together in super-quick time the night before. I was really impressed. Not only with his efficiency, but with how well it worked when it was all put together. I think both of us were just a bit thrown off by the change in pace from the argumentative Birchrod Inn scene we'd just filmed; in the end, I think the quieter dialogue in this worked out fine. Don't take my word for it though - watch it yourself, and let me know what you think!

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an announcement

Posted at 12:18 on 10 May 2010 by Pandora / Blake

Everything is up in the air right now. The political uncertainty of the moment is shared with everyone in the UK - although I'm less impatient than some about the current negotiations. Consensus politics always takes time, and I definitely prefer discussion and compromise to the hasty actions of an over-powerful single-party government. I'm quietly hopeful about the prospect of electoral reform, and if we get there it'll be worth the wait.

So I'm less upset than some about the fact that we still don't have a government. My personal uncertainty is affecting me far more.

The uncertainty is this. Tom and I are about to move in together. He's starting a new business with a couple of friends, and I'm helping them out. We've been talking about it for over six months, looking at different options at different ends of the country. Finally we've settled on a place on the south coast. It's really exciting, in a whole heap of different ways - new business! New town! Living with one of my partners for the first time! But it's also kind of scary, because things have moved very fast in the last few weeks and if things had gone to plan we'd have left by now.

The original plan was to go away on a working holiday today, come back in a couple of weeks, and then immediately move into our new home. So we were aiming to get everything packed and ready to move before we left. Our plans have had to be rejiggled at the last minute, though, due to some bureaucratic issues at the other end. I'm hoping we'll still get our time away, but there's some tedious legal stuff to sort out first. I still don't know exactly when we're leaving yet - hopefully this week.

In the meantime, I have a few more days to pack, which is good as after the election period (I was closely involved with a couple of campaigns) I am bloody knackered.

I'm currently boxing and bagging two years' worth of stuff. The last two years have been incredibly valuable. When I moved into this flat in 2008 it was the first time I'd ever lived on my own - and if all goes well, I won't live alone again for the foreseeable future, which is a scary kind of prospect. It's been brilliant. I've cherished my independence, setting my own hours, keeping my own house. In a way, I'll miss it. But throughout this period of my life I've also yearned to share my space with the ones I love, and the time has definitely come to move forward to the next stage.

D and I, of course, are staying together - we've done the long-distance thing before. I love him very very much, I hope to be his sub for many years to come, and I intend to do everything I can to keep our relationship strong throughout this change. I'll be coming back to London lots anyway for work, and he and I will remain business partners. I'm actually looking forward to being able to visit him for long romantic weekends; lately our time together has consisted of one of us arriving at the other's place after 10pm, both of us exhausted. It'll be nice to be able to have proper, unhurried date time again, and I don't mind being half-and-half between two towns for a bit. In any case, I have no intention to end my dalliance with Penny. I imagine I'll be back in London regularly.

Once we've managed to escape I'll be offline for a couple of weeks - then things will be busy with the move. I'll try and check in when I can, but I probably won't be back to my normal routine until the start of June. If I'm not around much in the next few weeks, that's why.

So that's my news. It's not as definite as I'd hoped, given the complications this week. But I'm excited about all of it - the new house is going to be far more suitable for filming in than my current flat, so I'm looking forward to getting stuck into work on my site this summer, once we've settled in.

I'm especially looking forward to moving in with Tom, and having the chance to create a shared home and explore our kink at a more leisurely, domestic pace. Our domestic discipline relationship has been more or less on hold the last few years, and I think we'd both like to pick that up again once we're living together. We're hoping that the change in circumstance will improve his health, which should feed back into our sex life. And it'll be so much easier to find time to play in our busy lives once we're sharing a house. I hear that some spankees who live with their partners get spanked every day. Every day! I suspect it might be exactly what my insomnia needs. I'm looking forward to finding out :)

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