Male spanking showcase

Posted at 23:25 on 7 Nov 2011 by Pandora / Blake

Tags: Audrey Knight, Bound Gods, Clare Spanks Men, Discipline for Boys, Female gaze, Gender politics, Male spanking models, other pictures, Performers and producers, Reluctant Young Men, Sites and studios, Spanking Central, Stefan Rhyzhkov, Sting Pictures

I've been experiencing a slightly strange phenomenon lately, while working fulltime getting Dreams of Spanking ready for launch. I've got used to seeing pictures of both men and women being spanked on a regular basis. It's changed my perspective on most of the spanking sites and blogs I read. Suddenly, sites which only feature female spankees seem weirdly limited to me. It feels kind of unnatural and artificial to restrict appreciation of a shapely reddened bottom to only one sex.

Obviously, as a woman writing a blog about her personal experience of spanking, this site has always had a similarly skewed focus as well. And when I'm reading about a particular couple's adventures it doesn't seem as odd. I just wish that more of the sites aiming to give a broad look at spanking fantasies or spanking updates online included some scenarios in which boys get spanked too. To me, these days, it would feel much more normal.

Anyway, even though it's hard to find the range I'm looking for within individual blogs, I've been able to provide some balance to my general viewing experience by adding sites focussing exclusively on boys getting spanked to my feed reader. The segregation seems a bit weird, but at least the end result is a pleasing mixture.

As a result, I've found loads of hot spanking photos of men. I didn't even know how good some of the F/M and M/M sites were until I started looking, because they're so rarely covered in the "mainstream" spanking roundups. So I wanted to share the goods for the benefit of other people who would quite like to look at cute male spankees, but don't know where to find them. Still, I found myself hesitating. What if I alienated all my readers?

But then I thought, sod it, this is my blog and it's about the spankings I find hot. So this post is for me, and for anyone else, boy or girl, who enjoys looking at quality spanking pictures and doesn't really mind who's getting it, as long as they're spankable.

And some of these men are very spankable.

Fab poster art by Dave at Spanking4men. If you want a way into the world of spanked men, you could do a lot worse than starting with his Male spanking awards.

How irresistable is that bubble butt?

I saw this picture and my imagination instantly ran riot visualing the relationship I would have with this rugged spankee bear.

Not to mention this one: HOT.

This doctor/patient scene by Sting Pictures looks amazing.

Pyjama-clad brat waiting for a bedtime spanking...

Mmm, I do love me a spanker in a suit.

Waiting in the woodshed

Ever wondered what happened if you pissed off Wonderwoman? Now you know.

Busted for dealing drugs? I'd take a spanking from Officer Chris over a prison term any day.

Who says boys don't have curves?

More beautiful curves.

Scary spanker; pretty strapped bottom.

Mmmmmmmleather.

I really enjoyed the institutional paddling clip at the bottom of this post.

This one provided a certain amount of fantasy fodder too. (Do I have a thing for strong men being whacked with heavy wooden paddles? Maaaaaybe.)

Finally, I absolutely adored this real life discipline story by Audrey Knight, in which she tells us about spanking her boyfriend and brat, Stefan. Captures the emotional intimacy of a discipline dynamic so well, and I found it absolutely fascinating to read about the dominant perspective.

Comments

Panadora,

I am glad to see you are covering all aspects of the spanking scenes..You still have the most bueatiful bottom,lady....Great work and very well written and enlighted part of the scene........

Be Safe,
Bryan

Thanks for leaving a comment Bryan, I'm glad you're reading!

Kaelah, I hoped that you might understand where I was coming from. Alienated is exactly the right world. Not only like half my kink isn't okay - but like sites which purport to be about "spanking in general" but actually only feature female spankees are somehow saying only women should get spanked - which always makes me feel really uncomfortable, just one step closer to the sexist idea which we're always trying to resist, that all women should get spanked. When I see a kink blog where every. single. image is a woman spanked, or tied up, or gagged, or clamped, it just makes me feel like this is the only way the author can see women. Featuring men in the same situations removes the gender bias and reassures me that the author is just into hot consensual scenes; they don't have any gendered expectations behind them. (I know this is irrational, I'm not saying that I actually think any blogger feels this way. It's just the result of the cumulative bombardment of male top, female bottom imagery. It makes me feel really distanced from the posters and the one thing guaranteed to reassure me and make me feel more at home is someone who's happy to mix up the genders in the spanking material they post.)

For full length films, I'm not sure, actually, but I'd say that Sting Pictures would be a good place to start, as I'm pretty sure they have at least some decent length clips with full stories. I will keep an eye out for a producer making full length /M films!

Karl, thanks! That's an awesome thing to hear. If you don't mind me asking, which pictures stood out for you? I know you aren't into the idea of spanking men, but as such it'd be even more interesting to know which pictures you found aesthetically appealing in the abstract.

I particularly liked the first and the sixth. The first because of the juxtaposition of manly torso and chubby spanked bottom, and the sixth because it's so androgynous. You really don't know if it's a boy or a girl.

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Yeah, the setup was pretty pathetic, and I'm not quite sure how I feel about the nerdy spanker (he's sort of sinister? But also sort of dorky? I can't decide!) but YES, OMG, the OTK sections just had me drooling.

Sting Pictures seem to be the site with the best spanko credentials so far, although Spanking Central also seems to produce high quality films (I'm a bit put off by their godawful website, though!)

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Pandora, this post resonated very much with some thoughts which I had during the recent months. I have to admit that I sometimes feel quite alienated by the strict separation of gender constellations on many sites. And although I know that this is not intended, it sometimes makes me feel unwelcome as well, like only one part of my kink is okay or recognised as being existent and the other parts aren't.

I have started to write more about F/M fantasies and my favourite constellation M/M on our blog as well, and I think that our readers can deal with it (actually, it's take it or leave it). Spanking Central is one of my favourite sites (M/M, safe top, good-looking spankees, non-sexual scenes, different topics, not only DD), and I especially love their “Dojo Discipline” series. Have you stumbled across a producer who makes good full-length M/M or F/M films as well? I think this is even harder to find than good /M clips.

Kaelah, I hoped that you might understand where I was coming from. Alienated is exactly the right world. Not only like half my kink isn't okay - but like sites which purport to be about "spanking in general" but actually only feature female spankees are somehow saying only women should get spanked - which always makes me feel really uncomfortable, just one step closer to the sexist idea which we're always trying to resist, that all women should get spanked. When I see a kink blog where every. single. image is a woman spanked, or tied up, or gagged, or clamped, it just makes me feel like this is the only way the author can see women. Featuring men in the same situations removes the gender bias and reassures me that the author is just into hot consensual scenes; they don't have any gendered expectations behind them. (I know this is irrational, I'm not saying that I actually think any blogger feels this way. It's just the result of the cumulative bombardment of male top, female bottom imagery. It makes me feel really distanced from the posters and the one thing guaranteed to reassure me and make me feel more at home is someone who's happy to mix up the genders in the spanking material they post.)

For full length films, I'm not sure, actually, but I'd say that Sting Pictures would be a good place to start, as I'm pretty sure they have at least some decent length clips with full stories. I will keep an eye out for a producer making full length /M films!

Karl, thanks! That's an awesome thing to hear. If you don't mind me asking, which pictures stood out for you? I know you aren't into the idea of spanking men, but as such it'd be even more interesting to know which pictures you found aesthetically appealing in the abstract.

I particularly liked the first and the sixth. The first because of the juxtaposition of manly torso and chubby spanked bottom, and the sixth because it's so androgynous. You really don't know if it's a boy or a girl.

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Yeah, the setup was pretty pathetic, and I'm not quite sure how I feel about the nerdy spanker (he's sort of sinister? But also sort of dorky? I can't decide!) but YES, OMG, the OTK sections just had me drooling.

Sting Pictures seem to be the site with the best spanko credentials so far, although Spanking Central also seems to produce high quality films (I'm a bit put off by their godawful website, though!)

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Although I'm not a fan of x/m spankings, I've got to agree some of these are great pictures. Good on you Pandora, broadening our horizons like this!

Karl, thanks! That's an awesome thing to hear. If you don't mind me asking, which pictures stood out for you? I know you aren't into the idea of spanking men, but as such it'd be even more interesting to know which pictures you found aesthetically appealing in the abstract.

I particularly liked the first and the sixth. The first because of the juxtaposition of manly torso and chubby spanked bottom, and the sixth because it's so androgynous. You really don't know if it's a boy or a girl.

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Yeah, the setup was pretty pathetic, and I'm not quite sure how I feel about the nerdy spanker (he's sort of sinister? But also sort of dorky? I can't decide!) but YES, OMG, the OTK sections just had me drooling.

Sting Pictures seem to be the site with the best spanko credentials so far, although Spanking Central also seems to produce high quality films (I'm a bit put off by their godawful website, though!)

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Oh. My.

Ahem. Well, I did rather enjoy this little post, Pandora!

That institutional paddling scene had a ridiculously bad set up, but I don't think I have ever seen a male bottom move so deliciously. I think I might have to start exploring M/M a little more often!

I particularly liked the first and the sixth. The first because of the juxtaposition of manly torso and chubby spanked bottom, and the sixth because it's so androgynous. You really don't know if it's a boy or a girl.

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Yeah, the setup was pretty pathetic, and I'm not quite sure how I feel about the nerdy spanker (he's sort of sinister? But also sort of dorky? I can't decide!) but YES, OMG, the OTK sections just had me drooling.

Sting Pictures seem to be the site with the best spanko credentials so far, although Spanking Central also seems to produce high quality films (I'm a bit put off by their godawful website, though!)

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Well done, it's perked up my breakfast browsing to see some really nice male bottoms being spanked. It is time for the spanko world to mix it up a bit and tear down the walls.
One little problem though is the apparent rarity of good-looking male spanking models. The girls are lovely (no more so than yourself Pandora), but if you take a little visit to FM land many of the men there are a lot less easy on the eye than the women doing the spanking.
MM doesn't appear to have the same problem. Perhaps FM producers should talk to their MM counterparts and recruit some new talent.

Hooray! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Looking forward to seeing more bloggers taking the plunge and mixing it up :)

I'm in total agreement regarding the discrepancy between the looks of female performers and male, on average (not that there aren't some great looking guys out there). You might find this post on this topic enlightening. The reason most F/M sites can't match M/M for the quality of their spankees is that most F/M sites don't pay their men! This is the FIRST thing that needs to shift in this industry before female viewers can hope for male actors as sexy as the women in porn. It's not that there aren't hot, talented guys out there - but just like the hot, talented women, on average they tend to be a bit insulted by being expected to work for free.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

It is odd that you can look at pictures of women spanking women without assuming that they are lesbians but photos of men spanking men are usually taken to be homosexual. Logically since I enjoy scenes of women punishing men I should get some pleasure from scenes involving only men, but I don't. As I have mentioned before the only time I was punished by a man (at my Mistresses request) I didn't enjoy it one bit. But as Tim says you are to be congratulated on your willingness to embrace the whole scene and your attempt to broaden the horizons of those reading your blog. Keep up the good work.

Thanks Pandora, looking in from the outside I wasn't aware of the no-pay issue. Are the FM sites all signed up members of Mr Cameron's Big Society? Using volunteers may be OK if you're running a village fete, but a serious business should respect its employees - pay peanuts, get monkeys.
What could you call a campaign to rip down the FF/MM/FM/MF barriers? Sadly, I think the barriers would be pretty tough to overcome because prejudices are ingrained. I know I've got a bit of it myself - I don't like M/F much. When I look at some beardy old guy spanking a girl who is young enough to be his daughter I want to climb into the picture (or video) and give him a punch on the nose. Not rational, but the spanking psych thing is a mixed up business, isn't it?

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Dear Pandora,
This is a kickass post! OMG, girl, you and I totally share the same taste in male bottoms... My favorite photos above are the one of the youn man bent over his bed in PJ's... His body language shows humble acceptance and fear. And the 2nd one from the bottom. And all the rest! One of these days I want to come to the UK... we should hook up and paint the town red! Thank you for the honorable mention... I'm glad you enjoyed the story.
Best,
Audrey

Audrey,

Thanks, I'm very glad you liked it! Your blog has the honour of being the ONLY one in my feed which shows both male and female spankees. I'm still amazed by this fact but I guess you're just a trendsetter! I'm really looking forward to the launch of Spanking360 - I think we have similar tastes in a number of ways when it comes to spanking porn, not only in terms of the sex of the performers but also portraying genuine emotional intimacy and romance as well as hard spanking.

Thanks for the comment, I'd love to get together with you if we're ever in the same country - and maybe do some shooting too if we can manage it :)

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

Well, I'm mainly a spanker (of female bottoms) but I am a bit switchy too, and I enjoy seeing men spanked by women. However I tend to focus on the spanker in those shots (I'm fascinated by the angle of her hand, how together her fingers are, whether her arm is fully raised, the look of concentration or joy on her face) so most of these ones here don't do anything for me.

I can, however, certainly see how they would appeal to anyone who is even a little interested in the male bottom.

While my focus will always be on the female bottom I think you are to be congratulated on your attempts to widen the scope of your blog; there aren't many around that are willing to cover the whole spectrum of the spanking experience.

Having said that, I'd still rather see shots of you, either being spanked or spanking; you've always been one of my favourite models.

Best wishes

Tim

Tim,

If you don't fancy men then I can see why you wouldn't want to physically focus on the scenes you look at. But lots of us do; and it seems a shame that the two worlds are kept so far apart.

Don't worry - I'm not going to stop posting pictures of me and my spanked bottom here any time soon :)

It is odd that you can look at pictures of women spanking women without assuming that they are lesbians but photos of men spanking men are usually taken to be homosexual.

I know - it's one of the big double standards of our times. Homosexual anxiety much?! One of the reasons I liked the Bound Gods picture above was the asexual nature of it. I don't read that as a gay scene at all, but as a very formal disciplinary situation. Ironic given how overtly sexual so much of the Bound Gods material is!

Sexual preference is tricky because on the one hand, I think it's healthy to accept one's sexuality - I think there's nothing wrong with being kinky and happiness comes from accepting and loving one's kinks rather than trying to train yourself out of them. But on the other hand, our society teaches us all sort of things - such as that kink is unhealthy, homosexuality and bisexuality is a sin, fat is ugly, etc etc - which are blatantly untrue, and as we grow up we have to train ourselves out of these harmful and limiting ways of seeing the world.

So I guess you have to ask yourself, do you not get pleasure out of scenes involving only men because you don't like playing with men, so you can't empathise with either of the characters and you aren't inclined to find either of them sexuality desirable? Or is it because you've been conditioned to see M/M and think "gay", and actually it would be perfectly possible for a straight man to enjoy an M/M fantasy just as some straight women enjoy F/F fantasies?

It's different for everyone - and ask long as you've asked yourself those questions honestly, you like what you like. There's no harm in that - as long as you don't try and impose those tastes on everyone else.

Excellent post, Pandora!

As you have done on several occasions, you're challenging and stimulating my intellect and personal attitudes as well feeding my erotic arts needs. As I've mentioned previously, I've often engaged in introspection and analysis around the connections between my gender-attraction orientation (heterosexual) and my corporal punishment sadism (which in some respects has been an open question for me).

The questions you pose are great ones:
"So I guess you have to ask yourself, do you not get pleasure out of scenes involving only men because you don’t like playing with men, so you can’t empathise with either of the characters and you aren’t inclined to find either of them sexuality desirable?"
For me the response to this is layered and maybe a bit convoluted. Why I don't like playing with men is partly because I'm not homosexual (although I'm not homophobic and am not opposed to the idea), and also in large part a consequence of the fact that I'm so sexually tuned into my perception of women experiencing pain. Why women almost exclusively? Good question - still exploring that.

So, "...it would be perfectly possible for a straight man to enjoy an M/M fantasy just as some straight women enjoy F/F fantasies?"
... I agree on the possibility, particularly if "the pain is the thing" of corporal punishment, regardless of gender. I'm open to the possibility that one day I will see a man suffering through the pain of a spanking or whipping and be able to "tune in" to that sexually. Perhaps it will be a certain man or type of man or level of pain or circumstance... etc. (The closest I've been to that is the scene in "Dead Poets Society"). And because I don't particularly care about the gender of the Top, that will be, when it happens, the first M/M scene that I enjoy sexually.

I hope it goes without saying, but just in case. I'm a huge fan of you and your blog and I can't ever imagine that changing. Keep up the great work, whatever you decide to post.

Best Regards,
Quai

I think it's really impressive how open-minded and questioning you are about your kink and sexuality. I have full respect for anyone who researches things thoroughly before making up their mind about what they like, rather than dismissing possibilities based on assumptions or prejudice :)

The best analogy I have personally to hand is the change in my response to fat female bodies and the bodies of trans people over the last ten years. A decade ago I'd have told you they "just weren't my type" without having really thought critically about why they might not be my type and why my personal taste "just happened" to coincide with what society shoves down our throats.

Certain aspects of our sexuality are fixed, and others are fluid. I know, from having tried, that I can't do without spanking, and I'm okay with that. I also know that I'm bi and there's nothing I can do about that either. But only fancying slender, cis people? Turns out that's not a "fixed" part of my sexuality - that was cultural brainwashing, and I'm far happier without it, thankyou!

So I can't tell anyone else which aspects of their sexuality are fixed, and which are fluid. All I want to do is ask the questions and let people decide for themselves :)

I figured you'd share my taste for chunky, masculine bodies :) I don't know if I'll ever get to spank one given how picky I am about the personality of potential spankees, but something about the idea very much appeals. Hopefully a guy fitting the bill will apply to model for me...

I hear you on the frustration of male tops with beautifully spankable bottoms! It makes me sigh. But not where they can hear. ;)

The M/M site which looks most worthwhile is Sting Pictures; for F/M I'd try Clare Spanks Men. For a start, they pay their male actors and the scenes treat them like human beings. Check out Prefect's review of Clare Spanks Men for more details.

Argh! And I see I have apostrophe fail. Probably a good thing that the Magician headed home today... ;-)

Oh *my*.

Okay, nothing very articulate to say in response to these, except YUM. Very, very, *very* nice.

I think picture 4 is probably my favourite. I like his challenging little smile. Definitely something I would wish to, ahem, rise to. ;-)

Too tired right now, but I'm going to follow some of the links from there pretty soon. My dommy side is still pretty hard to find at the moment - all sorts of difficulties I still need to unravel. But looking at more images of beautiful men being spanked may well help a lot.

I am entirely unsurprised to see that your taste in male bottom's is much the same as mine. :-) I am so very fortunate that both my partners have *staggeringly* pretty bottoms, though of course I don't ever get to spank the Magician's. Which I do feel sometimes is a bit of a shame. ;-)

I figured you'd share my taste for chunky, masculine bodies :) I don't know if I'll ever get to spank one given how picky I am about the personality of potential spankees, but something about the idea very much appeals. Hopefully a guy fitting the bill will apply to model for me...

I hear you on the frustration of male tops with beautifully spankable bottoms! It makes me sigh. But not where they can hear. ;)

The M/M site which looks most worthwhile is Sting Pictures; for F/M I'd try Clare Spanks Men. For a start, they pay their male actors and the scenes treat them like human beings. Check out Prefect's review of Clare Spanks Men for more details.

Argh! And I see I have apostrophe fail. Probably a good thing that the Magician headed home today... ;-)

How?,about an art-section depicting gleeful females witnessing male/male discipline scenes!

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