Schoolboys and aristocrats

Posted at 23:19 on 16 Sep 2011 by Pandora / Blake

Tags: cane, Dreams of Spanking, f-m, female gaze, Jimmy Holloway, m-m, other pictures, otk spanking, photos, porn production, school uniform, Sebastian Hawley, shoot writeups

 

I'd put a casting call up on my blog, but disappointingly, my inbox was not instantly flooded with requests for work from bright young things willing to shoot M/M spanking scenes. I received lots of emails from willing chaps over 40 who wanted to bottom to women, but lovely as I'm sure they were, none of them was really suitable for the scenes I had in mind.

In the end it was Twitter that solved my problem. I posted to the effect that I was looking for kinky young men willing to bottom on camera for CP films, and that I was offering competitive rates of pay, creative input and good times. Someone on my feed put me in touch with a friend of theirs. He didn't have a website, but he did have a link to a fetlife profile. I took one look at his photo gallery and was sold.

Ladies and gentlemen, I'd like to introduce you to Dreams of Spanking's newest star, Sebastian Hawley:

Sebastian switches, but was mostly interested in new encounters as a bottom, and had experience at modelling and acting. He's into deep D/S and service. Plus, look at that beautiful inkwork. I had to shoot him. All I needed now was someone to top.

 

 

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As a chap over 40, who likes to bottom to women, I feel a bit proud that I was not one of those bothering you about it in emails. My days as a potential new model are long gone. Pity this was not happening 20-25 years ago though, I would have been so up for it then.

Thanks for the post. I think that the knee jerk, anti M/m play thing is something that many men have to get over (I include myself in that statement). I think perhaps that the automatic assumption that participants in such activities will be labeled as homosexual must be dispelled. There are many lesbian and bisexual women who participate in F/f play but there are also plenty of heterosexual women who also do that and I do not see people judging a woman's sexual orientation by their willingness to play F/f. OK, I think it is clear that the girls have led the way on this one and it is time that the boys caught up.

Prefectdt

Your first paragraph makes me feel as though I have inadvertently caused offence to you and any other gentlemen who contacted me regarding modelling work. If so please do accept my apologies, it was not my intention.

I am by no means ruling out working with older gentlemen and hope to do so in the future. But it is so rare to see youthful men bottoming on F/M sites, and so many of my fantasies involve situations in which a young-looking actor would be more suitable, that that's what I'm focussing on initially. Over time I certainly mean to broaden the age range, but first I think I want to maximise the impact of what I'm doing by primarily casting the sort of youthful actors it is so rare to see in our scene. I hope that makes sense and does not make anyone who is no longer youthful feel that they are inferior in any way!

I agree with you entirely regarding M/M. I think it's a question of expectation. For instance, if you were to ask an average feminist whether she likes porn, she might say no, because she is envisaging the mainstream stereotype of porn with minimal emotional content and character development, unachievable bodies and poor or no plotlines. Show her some of the progressive, interesting, female gaze porn people like Anna Span and Erika Lust are producing and she might alter her answer.

In the same way, if you ask an average chap if they like M/M, he might envisage hunky naked body-builders grappling with one another in an industrial warehouse dungeon, with extreme, sexually explicit BDSM acts. But if you were to show him some restrained, story-based M/M spanking scenarios featuring heterosexual characters and no nudity, with believable interplay, hot power dynamics, witty dialogue and developed characters, he might adjust his answer. Perhaps he might find it easier to identify with one of the characters in this asexual context. Perhaps he might enjoy watching it as spanko entertainment, if not actually porn. But until M/M porn like this is more prevalent/visible, it is hard to ask people to accept the idea in general, because they will think of the stereotype first and foremost.

I did not find offense in your statement and I'm pretty sure that most 40 something guys would not either. It's more like Lenny Henry can tell joke about the Afro Caribbean community in the UK and it is not racist, where as a white comedian could not do the same. What I was trying to communicate was one 40 something male spankee having a quiet "Come on guys, get a reality check or people might start believing the stereotyping" in the ear of some other 40 something male spankees because I am better placed to say this.

I personally would like to see more younger spankees, in the mix, especially ones who might stick around and become screen personalities and your plan to stick with the younger generation right now seems a good one to me.

Prefectdt

Wow, that's great news Pandora! I definitely envy you for your scene with these two sweet school boys. And I'm also very curious to watch Jimmy topping!

I did not find offense in your statement and I'm pretty sure that most 40 something guys would not either. It's more like Lenny Henry can tell joke about the Afro Caribbean community in the UK and it is not racist, where as a white comedian could not do the same. What I was trying to communicate was one 40 something male spankee having a quiet "Come on guys, get a reality check or people might start believing the stereotyping" in the ear of some other 40 something male spankees because I am better placed to say this.

I personally would like to see more younger spankees, in the mix, especially ones who might stick around and become screen personalities and your plan to stick with the younger generation right now seems a good one to me.

Prefectdt

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