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Split bloomers and enormous hats

Posted at 14:12 on 4 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I love these illustrations from an old printing of a French erotic memoir, Au Rouge Vif: anecdotes intimes sur la flagellation. The clothes are marvellous (split bloomers! and look at that hat!), the poses are dynamic and I love the dual punishment image.

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Tags: fetish art, Victoriana, Vintage


A placeholder paddling

Posted at 23:40 on 6 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I've been working on my website since 7am, and D is waiting for me in bed. So I don't have time tonight to write any of the clever or interesting posts I'd like to write. Other people have written some excellent ones lately; I'll try to find time tomorrow to link you to my favourites.

In the meantime (call it an apology if you like), here's a couple of pictures from last Wednesday's post-shoot play party, of me getting the paddle from Zoe Montana. Between her and my friend J that evening, I still have bruises.

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Tags: featured photos, kink, paddle, Performers and producers, Photos, Subbing to women, Zoe Montana


Midweek hyperkinks #6

Posted at 00:29 on 8 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I haven't done a hyperkinks post in months - but don't worry, I'm not going to attempt a complete catch up. Just a brief glimpse at some of the interesting and sexy things that have populated the internet in the last couple of weeks.


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Tags: Chelsea Pfeiffer, Dallas Spanks Hard, Fantasies, Female gaze, Gender politics, Good Spanking, hyperkinks, Janna, Jimmy Holloway, Kami Robertson, Kink activism, Madison Young, Nimue Allen, Northern Spanking, Politics, polyamory, Rosie, Sarah Bright, Sarah Gregory, Spanked in Uniform, Spanking Sarah


Another kind of catharsis

Posted at 23:57 on 11 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

As you all probably know by now, when I'm punished on video I like it to be for a good reason. I don't enjoy bratting in my personal play - being "naughty" or the guilty feeling of being caught holds little interest for me. I can't stand scenarios where I'm meant to have done something stupid, inexplicable or annoying. With my doms I'm a good girl, and in my fantasies I'm a brave, noble heroine (and sometimes the other way round). Being martyred for a righteous action, unfairly punished for something I didn't do, blackmailed or caught in a catch-22 - all these situations work for me. If I must have deserved my punishment, I prefer it if the misdeed is at least creative, amusing, or justified from my character's point of view.

Humiliation play is some people's kink. I prefer play that centres around pride.

The weird thing is that there's one notable exception to this preference of mine. In some cases, I'll throw myself into a scenario which is precisely the opposite of the ones described above. Sometimes, I like to play a character whose actions I find especially abhorrent, and let the top's character represent my own personal opinion.

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Tags: featured photos, Photos, Politics, Spanked in Uniform


Overdue discipline

Posted at 00:34 on 13 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I got spanked today. D and I hadn't caught up on our discipline deal for three weeks. I argued, beforehand, that this was unfair and counted against me. If he doesn't find time to deal with my misdeeds each week, I proposed, then they should be cancelled out. There shouldn't be any rollover. It's unfair that I should have to take three weeks of punishment at once simply because he hasn't kept up.

He came and hugged me, smiling around the eyes. I pouted at him. He led me through to the bedroom.

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Tags: bath brush, D, dominance and submission, kink, otk spanking, Real life punishment


Telling your partner

Posted at 18:51 on 13 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I really enjoyed this recent post by Penny Barber, fellow entrepreneur and kinky pornographer who runs her own age play website, Pampered Penny. She's writing about the many emails she gets from men who are into ageplay but in unfulfilled, vanilla marriages, and the sympathy she has for their wives. If your partner won't talk to you about your kink, how can you be expected to fulfil them?

She has some useful suggestions for how to approach this sort of communication in a relationship. Penny's talking specifically about age play here, but this is good relationship advice for all kinksters:

If Ive learned anything over my eight years as a sex worker, talking to people from all walks of life, its that you cant deny your kink. You can try, but its a part of you, and not a small part. Its part of your identity. So I really, really suggest having the I have a fetish for _____, or I like to age play, conversation BEFORE you get married and even before things get too serious.

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Tags: age play, kink, Pampered Penny, Penny Barber, relationships, Sites and studios


e[lust] #34

Posted at 13:21 on 19 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

Photo Courtesy of JM from There is No Spoon!

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether youre looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, youre going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #35 ? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! Note: Wondering why there is no Top 3 this edition? Read the latest Editor's Note to find out why, and what you can do to help prevent this from happening in the future.

~ Featured Posts (Picked by Lilly) ~

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Tags: Blogging, elust


Double canings

Posted at 21:58 on 21 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I love double canings. I didn't get many at all the first few years I was playing, but apparently the more people I get to know in the scene the more likely they become. Here are some people I have received double canings from:

  • Tom and HH
  • Abel and Haron
  • Tom and D (best double caning EVER for obvious reasons)
  • Mrs Darling and Miss Hammond-Grant AKA Lucy McLean and Amy Hunter (close runner-up to best ever: advantage of one left-hand, one right-hand, also two ladies = win)
  • Tom and Hywel Phillips

People I have not received double canings from but would like to:

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Tags: cane, kink, Triple A Spanking


Nice vs good

Posted at 13:24 on 24 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

My life is going through another phase of change at the moment - forthcoming house move, attendant financial stresses, trying to get ahead with work to create time for all the practicalities. I'm simultaneously in great need of stress relief spankings, but obviously far too busy and important to have time for them.

Well. Not quite: if my spanker were, say, to stride into my office mid-work, tell me to take off my headphones, flip me over despite my protests that I couldn't possibly take a break right this second, and whack me for a few minutes before disappearing again, that would probably help my state of mind no end. Once I'd recovered from my initial indignance, that is.

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Tags: D, dominance and submission, Fantasies, kink


Sarah Sly, Private Eye

Posted at 21:21 on 28 Mar 2012 by Pandora / Blake

Spanking Sarah have just released the first scene I shot with them in Feburary! It's episode three of the ongoing series Sarah Sly, Private Eye.

The ongoing series are one of my favourite things about Spanking Sarah, although it's a website with many good qualities. (My other favourite things include the imaginative storylines, the sense of fun, the fusion of disciplinary spanking, sensual CP and occasional explicit sex, and the emphasis on Sarah's personality and fantasies.) I know that Sarah's partner and co-owner Mr Stern, the webmaster of English Spankers, has wanted to make a TV-style private investigator series with spanking for years, and it's great to see him finally having the chance to explore the idea through his partnership with Sarah Bright.

In this episode Sarah Sly is hired by a parent to investigate a teacher at their child's school, who is alleged to have punished the child inappropriately, as only the headmaster is allowed to administer corporal punishment. It was a fun scene: I enjoy the chance to play a teacher rather than a schoolgirl occasionally, and I liked getting to be a bit more grownup and professional, but still get whacked in the end.

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Tags: cane, otk spanking, Performers and producers, Photos, Sarah Bright, Spanking Sarah


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