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What I need

Posted at 23:19 on 10 Apr 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I write this from my bed, my own bed, in my very own room in my new flat. My room is getting there, now: the bed is up, the furniture in place, clothes unpacked into a new wardrobe and chest of drawers. Big bags of clothes I'm giving away.

I'm a hoarder by nature, and while unpacking I'm sorting through my things, working out what I need, and what I can live without. The last six months living out of a suitcase at D's place has allowed me to re-evaluate. Some things I've missed; others I've not. The tools and equipment for filming and my vanilla business bulk out my possessions, but those are being trimmed too, keeping the best and throwing out what I rarely use. My shooting clothes have been compressed into a mere three crates. I'm lucky to have nice things, and being in my own bed again, with my own books around me, is a pleasure. But there's a consumerist guilt, too, to owning so much, especially when faced with a mountain of boxes that require moving.

The new flat is gorgeous. I can't wait to shoot in it.

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Tags: D, dominance and submission, kink


The spanking I crave

Posted at 15:16 on 13 Apr 2012 by Pandora / Blake

Earlier this week, I posted the following to Twitter:

The spanking I'm craving today is a hand spanking. Starting gentle, firm but not too stingy; building relentlessly to deeper impacts.

The beating D gave me on Sunday was necessary, valuable. It kept me sane for a couple of days at least. But my tension levels quickly crept up again. By Tuesday I was shifting in my chair, cursing myself for being so high maintenance as to need several spankings a week to manage my emotional state.

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Tags: dominance and submission, Fantasies, hairbrush, kink, otk spanking, Thomas Cameron


e[lust] #35

Posted at 09:32 on 16 Apr 2012 by Pandora / Blake

Photo Courtesy of Vincent and Mia

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #36? Start with the newly updated rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ Top 3 ~

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Tags: Blogging, elust


How to charm a spanking performer

Posted at 15:31 on 17 Apr 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I have achieved Fetlife inbox zero! This doesn't happen often. I get a lot of messages on Fetlife, and I've never been sure if that makes me lucky or unlucky. Fetlife is great for sharing photos, connecting with other industry people, socialising with play partners after a scene, and getting to know kinksters who'll be going to a particular event. I've used Fetlife messages for important social communication and work correspondence. Sometimes I get unsolicited messages from people who end up becoming real friends. But I have to wade through a lot of crap in between.

For whatever reason, I don't receive awful emails as often as other performers. But Fetlife brings them all to the surface. And a full inbox bugs me, so from time to time I have to clear it out. Here are the craziest messages from the most recent batch:

kisses and greetings bdsm

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Tags: Performers and producers


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