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Q&A: Recovering from severe scenes

Posted at 21:00 on 10 Aug 2012 by Pandora / Blake

I received a great question by email recently, and thought you might find my answer interesting. I am sharing this with the enquirer's blessing.

I am a switch, and my sub side would love to experience a harsh judicial scene that includes a prison strap and cane. I have never gone this deep into the realm before, and I don't know what to expect. My conflict starts with my job. I dispatch trains, and as a result, I have to sit for 8 hours at a time, not solidly, I do take short breaks when I can get them. The problem is I really can not be distracted when doing my job. If I go to my dominant to carry out this fantasy, will I be able to watch out for the safety of the people I dispatch? Is this something maybe I should keep as a fantasy, and not do it for real?

Just for information, I was thinking of a "sentence" of maybe 25 strokes of the prison strap, and 25 strokes of the cane for a starting point. Maybe starting with the prison strap, so she could get me howling, then "ladder" my butt with welts using the cane.

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Tags: FAQ, judicial, kink, Pain4Fem, pandoras mailbox


Catching up

Posted at 22:36 on 11 Aug 2012 by Pandora / Blake

It's been a ridiculously busy couple of weeks. I'm still intending to finish telling you about my TASSP adventures, but in the meantime it feels like I'm having new adventures faster than I can tell them.

At the end of July Tom and I went away for a week, camped in a field, spent some time with Jacq, reconnected, recharged, and achieved some much-needed relationship healing. It was a long awaited, joyful and wholly necessary week, and I wish we could do it every month.

I got back the Monday before last, and it felt like I only had a couple of hours to turn my head around before diving back into work to catch up with video editing for Dreams of Spanking. I'm really enjoying the films I've been making this year and it's a pleasure to work on them, but right now I'm feeling the push of not having enough time to do them justice. Dreams of Spanking really needs me 7 days a week in order for me to feel like I'm putting enough work in, but that isn't compatible with doing other paid work, so I always feel like I'm short-changing it a bit. Never mind taking time away from it for unpaid commitments like a much-needed week in a field, or the new experimental feature film project I was shooting on location this week...

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Tags: Dreams of Spanking, kink, Molly Malone, private sessions, spanking parties, switching


Male subs on TV: Rick Castle

Posted at 14:40 on 25 Aug 2012 by Pandora / Blake

A couple of nights ago I watched the first few episodes of the TV show "Castle", which I'd been interested in ever since I discovered that it featured Nathan Fillion as a murder mystery writer playing poker with real life authors Michael Connelly, James Patterson, and Stephen J. Cannell.

It's a silly, stylish, entertaining little show. The basic premise is that Rick Castle, a bad boy bestselling author played by Nathan Fillion, ends up helping hard-hitting, no-nonsense New York detective Kate Beckett to solve homicide cases. So far, so implausible. But it does have one very interesting theme running through it. Rick Castle is sexually submissive. In fact, he's a brat. From the very first episode, the sexual tension underpinning Castle and Beckett's relationship is full of kinky references.

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Tags: f-m, films and TV, gender politics, male submission


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