
PSA
Posted at 19:17 on 13 Sep 2012 by Pandora / Blake
A couple of weeks ago, Molly and I broke up. Actually I broke us: I broke hard limits, I betrayed trust, and I badly wronged people I cared for. I behaved unforgivably.
As a consequence I have a lot of hard thinking to do.
This has impacted my life professionally as well as personally. I don't see that I have any choice but to keep on updating Dreams of Spanking, and I'm not sure I want to put this blog completely on hiatus until I've found a way of talking about what happened. But on both sites, my inclination is to focus on other people's stories at the moment.
I'll write a more detailed post once I've had some time to process it all. I have more to say, I just need to find the words. For now, it seemed important that I tell you this much, at least.
Comments
Prefectdt
I think you are right in that it is more important to keep Dreams of Spanking updated than to keep this blog updated. Please take your time until you have found the right words.
Hugs, Kaelah
Of course I was reminded of ttwd, and how it too is a sort of "rough" play with boundaries that are negotiated and renegotiated as relationships progress.
With that as a background, perhaps what transpired with you and your friend need not be terminal for the relationship but can maybe be a learning experience of sorts for you both.
I'd suggest a good spanking for your naughtiness if I didn't suspect you'd just enjoy it, but maybe some manner of punishment that you wouldn't enjoy like caould be negotiated as a remedy acceptable to the two of you.
Thanks for sharing the situation with your readers, Pandora.
Best wishes for a stronger relationship in the end!
I'm so sorry to hear about this rough patch in your life. I'm sure I speak for hundreds of fellow lurkers when I say your blog brings happyness and joyto so many of us and I personally look forward to the time soon when you'ree back on the horse and writting again.
Wishing you all the best
Love mogy
So take your time, find the words if you think it's important, or just find the right space and make things the best they can be between you and Molly. Whatever it is that makes the most positive come out of this for the people involved.
Wishing you (plural) all the best.
PS also apologies for late arrival, I've been missing reading this blog for a while.
Nomi and I are sad for you at this time and we have blogged about your website and wish you well. Be brave and yes learn from your mistakes. I hope that you recover and go on to produce to some wonderful work. We love reading your blog and seeing what is going on in your world, because you are always fresh and exciting.
Here is a link to the blog entry for you to read:
http://spankingdelights.blogspot.co.uk/2012/10/the-class-system-in-spanking.html
All the best
Jake and Nomi Kanehard
As always, if you need to talk or write, I'm happy to offer an ear, or a shoulder, advice, or whatever you might need from me.
Take care of yourself and I hope you can forgive yourself. Realize this is key, regardless of whatever else happens.
Best Regards,
Quai
I hope that things look better to you with a little more distance; it's an awful cliche but time is a great healer.
All the best; my thoughts are with you.
Tim
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