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Lost Causes: out now!

Posted at 22:43 on 4 Mar 2013 by Pandora / Blake

Exciting news! Lost Causes, the Edwardian film by Rou starring Adele Haze, Thomas Cameron and myself, is now available to purchase on DVD.

Working as a producer/director team alongside the Rou crew, Tom and I wrote the script based on characters from our previous Rou production; fin de sicle finishing school lesbian Miranda Somerville and her dancing instructor and master of discipline, Thomas Cameron (Tom originally took his screen name from this character).

Lost Causes - Roue Productions Lost Causes - Roue Productions

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Tags: Adele Haze, bloomers, cane, Edwardian, featured photos, historical, Performers and producers, Photos, Roue, tawse, Thomas Cameron

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Work hard, play hard

Posted at 14:04 on 6 Mar 2013 by Pandora / Blake

2013 has been a good year so far. Good, but busy. I'm always juggling several workloads, and honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way - I thrive on variety, and switching my focus regularly from project to project helps keep me fresh and motivated.

Since October I've been living alone in a spacious ground floor flat right on the north edge of London, an Edwardian conversion with a lovely garden. I love it. The flat; and the living alone, which suits me extremely well. I like inviting people back and then having the place to myself again. I like how once I've tidied it, it stays tidy until I mess it up. I like being able to just get work done until it's finished without having to worry about ignoring anyone. No doubt living with partners again is part of my future, but I can see myself staying here for a while, a couple of years at least.

Partly in order to afford the rent, I've been sessioning a lot the last few months. I've really connected with my dominant side recently, and I feel like I've finally found my voice as a top. Top sessions make me very, very happy. I enjoy switch dynamics with some clients, but for the most part what I want to do is top, top, top. The more I do it, the more it whets my appetite. It's the perfect outlet for the desires I can't express within my current relationships, and great training for playing top roles on video.

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Tags: BBW, D, Dreams of Spanking, featured photos, kink, Michael Darling, Photos, switching

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Processing the experience

Posted at 13:21 on 8 Mar 2013 by Pandora / Blake

The Pervocracy have a fantastic post up about the different skills involved in bottoming/submission, and the ways in which a bottom actively engages with the process. The whole post is spot on, including skills such as knowing your own desires and limits and being able to effectively communicate them, being safety aware, giving good feedback, subtly helping the scene along with your physical movements, and being attentive to the fact that tops need aftercare too.

All the practical stuff is excellent advice, but my favourite section of the post was the skills that was hardest to explain: "process the experience".

This is the internal work of bottoming, and I don't know what I'm going to write in this section, because it's... magic or neurology or something. Also a lot of deep breathing. This is where you take in pain, discomfort, fear, and/or humiliation, and you turn them into something wonderful for yourself. And very often it is an effort. It can take focus and intention to turn a spanking from "my butt hurts, ow, my butt hurts again" to "my butt hurts in a way that is giving me the most amazing pleasure." Or when it isn't pleasure, "my butt hurts and I am strong and I am taking it." It's almost a kind of meditation.

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Tags: cane, dominance and submission, kink, Kink activism

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Continued adventures in submission

Posted at 20:58 on 12 Mar 2013 by Pandora / Blake

In my fantasy, Tom tells me to put on a school uniform, an authentic one with a knee-length skirt and shirt buttoned up to the collar. He pulls out my desk chair into the middle of the room and sits down on it. I stand to one side of him, fidgeting with the hem of my skirt, until he tells me to lie across his knee.

He lifts my skirt and spanks me with his hand, slowly, thoroughly. He does not stop when I start to whimper, nor when I start to yell. His other hand curves around my middle, holding me secure. He spanks the resistance out of me, and continues to spank me long after I have surrendered limply over his lap.

After my spanking, Tom tells me to stand, and he gets up as well. Then I am to bend over and grip the seat of the chair with my hands. He chooses a cane. It is one of the thin, whippy ones I hate, the ones that slice viciously into the skin with a fierce sting that grows and grows. Subdued, I do not argue. In my fantasy the slashing, stinging cane bites into me again and again.

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Tags: dominance and submission, kink, Photos, Thomas Cameron

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Video blog!

Posted at 00:49 on 18 Mar 2013 by Pandora / Blake

The super-lovely Alex Reynolds has staying with me all this week. We've got up to all sorts of spanking-related shenanigans, and I have some awesome photos and stories to share with you when it isn't nearly 1am. I've posted some already in a behind the scenes post on Dreams of Spanking, and I'm planning another post here about our non-professional adventures.

Meanwhile, here's a video blog that we filmed with Nimue Allen halfway through a two day shoot for Dreams of Spanking and Nimue's World. In this video we're all wearing pyjamas, and we're in that post-shoot giggly high. We talk about the shoot and some of the things we've been up to, and play with lots of stuffed animals. It's kind of silly and cute and ridiculous, but we had a lot of fun filming it.

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Tags: Alex Reynolds, Nimue Allen, Performers and producers, Videos

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Off-chart bossing

Posted at 13:16 on 23 Mar 2013 by Pandora / Blake

I first met Alex Reynolds at the Texas All State Spanking Party last year. By then I'd been reading her blog for a few months at least, and thanks to her candid writing style I already felt like I knew her pretty well. She was just as brilliant in person as I'd expected, and we had fun hanging out, including shooting a couple of scenes for my spanking site Dreams of Spanking and a bit of off-camera getting spanked together, too.

That encounter, plus almost another year of mutual blog-reading and Twitter in between, was somehow enough that when she mentioned she was coming to the UK on a shoot tour, it didn't feel at all weird for me to invite her to stay as long as she liked. She ended up visiting for a week, during which time we got to know each other a lot better and discovered we had even more in common than we'd ever suspected. We also got up to about as many kinky hijinks and adventures as you'd expect when two spanking models and enthusiasts get together. This isn't always the case, but I think Alex carries a cloud of high spanking probability around with her, and somehow spankings are much more likely to occur in her vicinity.

After a first night hanging out and talking for hours, including under the covers after promising each other multiple times we were going to be good girls and go to sleep, the next day we headed to my local high street to pick up some clothes for spanking roleplays. Alex had been separated from one of her suitcases during a flight on the first leg of her journey (it was eventually returned to her home address, so she didn't lose anything permanently, but she had a lot less with her on her trip than she'd planned) and I've been meaning for a while to buy some more toppy outfits for shoots and discipline sessions. We picked up a few cute items and both got what we needed. I also found a pair of new jeans which I'm rather pleased with:

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Tags: Alex Reynolds, cane, Dreams of Spanking, kink, Nimue Allen, Performers and producers, Photos, switching, Thomas Cameron

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New photos by PWPimages

Posted at 23:19 on 24 Mar 2013 by Pandora / Blake

A couple of weeks ago I was booked by the Camera Club to do a lunchtime session, posing for four photographers who took it in turns to take pictures. One of the photographers to come along was PWPimages, whom I've worked with several times now. I like his direction and communication, and I always feel like I do good work with him. We have other things in common, too: among other things, he's a big fan of bottoms.

He's just sent me some photos from the shoot and there are a few I liked enough to show you. We played with fashion and art nude, but it was the kinky outfits and lingerie this time that led to the stand-out images.

Photo: PWPimages, Model: Pandora Blake

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Tags: featured photos, Fetish clubbing, model behaviour, Photos

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