Love Our Lurkers IX

Posted at 11:43 on 12 Nov 2014 by Pandora / Blake

Tags: Blogging, Love Our Lurkers day

 

 

Social interaction makes the world go round. Today (and tomorrow) are Love our Lurkers day - the ninth one to date. I missed a couple. You've probably noticed that I've been a bit sporadic at keeping this blog updated since I launched Dreams of Spanking in 2011. Keeping a membership site updated with a new film and image gallery every week creates a fairly hectic schedule. But when I wasn't doing it so much, I really felt the absence of personal blogging.

This blog has been a consistent part of most of my adult life. I wrote the first post in August 2006, after my first spanking video shoot with English Spankers. But it was never just a professional blog - as well as my spanking porn work, I immediately started writing about my private kinky relationships and play - and in October 2006 I wrote my first post about the proposed extreme porn legislation. Kink, porn and politics have been the focus of this blog since the start. And eight years later, I'm still writing. Are you still reading?

This year - since hiring AJ and Girl on the Net to help out with the week-to-week running of Dreams of Spanking - I've been making a real effort to blog here more frequently. And I'm not doing badly; I've written 55 posts this year already, compared with only 32 in 2013. But we don't have the conversations we used to. I miss our chats! I know I went quiet for a while, but I'm here now.

To be honest, I'll keep on writing either way. Blogging is in my soul - I can't help it, no matter how creatively fulfilled I am elsewhere. I need this outlet, and I write for myself first and foremost. But it's so much more fun and interesting if you talk back.

Are you out there? This is your chance to say hello. Maybe we used to talk regularly. Maybe you've never left a comment. You don't have to say anything exciting - just let me know you're there.

Hi.

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Comments

Hi Pandora - Happy LoL Day!

It would seem we both starting blogging around the same time! And still haven´t lost the interest in it!

I could promise to comment on your excellent posts more often in the future, but I try not to make promises I can´t keep ;)!

Cheers
Chross

It seems that the comment which I tried to post yesterday didn't show up. So, next try. :-)

Happy LOL Day, Pandora! I don't manage to comment a lot these days, but I still read your blog. I hope you had a great time in Berlin and a safe trip back home. Glad that the screening of your film went so well. I've watched it (the version on your site) and liked it very much.

hello, I love your work and long may it continue.

LOL again already!
I lurk here a lot.

Fred

[…] Photo courtesy of Pandora Blake […]

Happy LOL Day.

Hi Leigh! Thanks for stopping by.

Hey Pandora

Well, I'm here regularly. There's always something thought provoking on your blog.

All the best

Tim

I'm very bad at actually commenting on the things that I read, which makes me feel guilty sometimes, since I love getting comments myself! LOL day is reminding me that I need to make that effort and keep conversations going! I've been kind of overly work oriented and anti social in general recently but I have to just keep making the effort. I love you a TON. <3

Dear Pandora,
I feel a little intimidated posting a comment for the first time. To me you are a bit of a hero having the bravery to publish, participate and comment on the spanking world as your real self. All your comments on ethical porn are thoughtful and considered and whilst I don't agree with every one it has forced me to really think about the world and how we interact in it.

As Stoneresque said it is the strength of your images and your commitment to present reality that has captured my interest. I may never comment again, but you have my (very quiet) support. Thank you for presenting a small slice of my reality

Love your films and will lurk no more, What do I have to do to be spanked in one by you Pandora? :)

Thanks Andy! It's lovely to meet you :)

If you're serious about spanking films, send some photos (including a clear face and bum shot) to pandora at DreamsofSpanking.com, along with details of your relevant spanking and performance experience. Be warned though, I'm super picky - and I have a long waiting list of people I already want to shoot with. But I'll definitely have a look and let you know.

Hi Tailblazing, thanks for getting in touch - it's nice to meet you :) I've just replied to your email!

Hi Serafin, thanks for the sweet words! I'm glad you enjoy my films :)

Hi you! Miss you loads :)

Hi! I recognise the username. I think we might have chatted on twitter as well. I find blog discussion threads so much easier to keep up with though - twitter moves so damn fast!

Yes, we've tweeted once or twice. And yes, it is damn fast!

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Thanks Mace! It's really lovely to meet you :)

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Hello Pandora
I've been looking at some of your output on Dreams of Spanking, Facebook and Twitter and now here exploring and enjoying your blog.

Hi Tailblazing, thanks for getting in touch - it's nice to meet you :) I've just replied to your email!

Hi Serafin, thanks for the sweet words! I'm glad you enjoy my films :)

Hi you! Miss you loads :)

Hi! I recognise the username. I think we might have chatted on twitter as well. I find blog discussion threads so much easier to keep up with though - twitter moves so damn fast!

Yes, we've tweeted once or twice. And yes, it is damn fast!

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Thanks Mace! It's really lovely to meet you :)

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Hi, Pandora: I know about your videos and more, since some years ago, and I can say sincerely that you are adorable, extremely beauty and desireble, you would stay on my knees.
I enjoyed a lot with your historys.
I send to you a very, very lovely kiss.
Thanks a lot.

Hi Serafin, thanks for the sweet words! I'm glad you enjoy my films :)

Hi you! Miss you loads :)

Hi! I recognise the username. I think we might have chatted on twitter as well. I find blog discussion threads so much easier to keep up with though - twitter moves so damn fast!

Yes, we've tweeted once or twice. And yes, it is damn fast!

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Thanks Mace! It's really lovely to meet you :)

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Sometimes lurker, but not a stranger, love you lots!

Hi you! Miss you loads :)

Hi! I recognise the username. I think we might have chatted on twitter as well. I find blog discussion threads so much easier to keep up with though - twitter moves so damn fast!

Yes, we've tweeted once or twice. And yes, it is damn fast!

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Thanks Mace! It's really lovely to meet you :)

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Hello!

I've only commented once or twice in the past... but my lack of interaction is no reflection on how much I enjoy reading what you write. It's always thoughtful, intelligent & interesting. And I'm thankful that you do it :)

Hi! I recognise the username. I think we might have chatted on twitter as well. I find blog discussion threads so much easier to keep up with though - twitter moves so damn fast!

Yes, we've tweeted once or twice. And yes, it is damn fast!

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Thanks Mace! It's really lovely to meet you :)

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

I often read your posts. I like your views on life and the industry/scene in general. Looking good by the way.

Yes, we've tweeted once or twice. And yes, it is damn fast!

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Thanks Mace! It's really lovely to meet you :)

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Hello Pandora ,I leave comments to you on Dreams Of Spanking your great site ,love and spanks from ,Timx

Hi Tim, I think you've commented here before as well. Nice to see you again :)

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Nice blog you have here.

Fancy meeting you here!

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Lurked a few times and don't think I've left a comment. Do like your blog.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Hi Ronnie! It's nice to meet you - thanks for stopping by. :)

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

Hi Pandora,

Thanks for joining us for LoL 9.

Hugs,
Hermione

Hi Hermione, thanks so much for organising it! LOL day helps keep blogs fresh and always stimulates good conversations :)

You are very beautiful and have a perfect arse I could draw you all day if you would be my model. I think I would need to regularly masterbate, but maybe thats something you could help with.

What's lurking??... yet another fetish... I can't keep up lol..; )

Welcome Dek! A lurker is someone who reads a blog, but never leaves a comment.

Haha, it's contagious! Thanks for stopping by, and for the lovely comment :)

Hello my dear! I didn't realise you were still reading. You are much missed, you know :)

Thank you for stopping by, I really appreciate it :) I don't always comment on the blogs I read as much as I should, but LOL day is a good reminder for me that the writers I love thrive on encouragement.

Hi Kaelah, thanks so much for stopping by! I loved Berlin. I could definitely live there :) And thanks for your kind comments about 'Instructed', I'm very glad you liked it.

Thanks Valery - for the comment, and for your prompt and incisive response to that Bindel quote in the Guardian piece. Looking forward to chatting more, here and there!

Hi Mick, it's nice to meet you! Thanks - I'm glad you're enjoying the blog :)

Thanks for the comment, it's lovely to meet you. Blogging is the best way to meet likeminded feminist kinksters :)

Hi Pandora

Discovered you first on Twitter, probably through a Retweet by the ever excellent GOTN, and that led me to your blog. I thought I had little interest in spanking but the strength and erotic imagery of your writing has changed my viewpoint. So hello from yet another lurker, and thank you!

Haha, it's contagious! Thanks for stopping by, and for the lovely comment :)

Hello my dear! I didn't realise you were still reading. You are much missed, you know :)

Thank you for stopping by, I really appreciate it :) I don't always comment on the blogs I read as much as I should, but LOL day is a good reminder for me that the writers I love thrive on encouragement.

Hi Kaelah, thanks so much for stopping by! I loved Berlin. I could definitely live there :) And thanks for your kind comments about 'Instructed', I'm very glad you liked it.

Thanks Valery - for the comment, and for your prompt and incisive response to that Bindel quote in the Guardian piece. Looking forward to chatting more, here and there!

Hi Mick, it's nice to meet you! Thanks - I'm glad you're enjoying the blog :)

Thanks for the comment, it's lovely to meet you. Blogging is the best way to meet likeminded feminist kinksters :)

Still reading and loving the blog and respecting the ethical side to your work. Have a great LOL day.

Prefectdt

Hello my dear! I didn't realise you were still reading. You are much missed, you know :)

Thank you for stopping by, I really appreciate it :) I don't always comment on the blogs I read as much as I should, but LOL day is a good reminder for me that the writers I love thrive on encouragement.

Hi Kaelah, thanks so much for stopping by! I loved Berlin. I could definitely live there :) And thanks for your kind comments about 'Instructed', I'm very glad you liked it.

Thanks Valery - for the comment, and for your prompt and incisive response to that Bindel quote in the Guardian piece. Looking forward to chatting more, here and there!

Hi Mick, it's nice to meet you! Thanks - I'm glad you're enjoying the blog :)

Thanks for the comment, it's lovely to meet you. Blogging is the best way to meet likeminded feminist kinksters :)

Agreed, I rarely comment on the blogs I read. I guess it's people like me why we have a "love our lurkers" day. Nonetheless, I'm a regular reader of your blog and I enjoy your well written and interesting posts, be it about spanking, porn in general or about politics.

Thank you for stopping by, I really appreciate it :) I don't always comment on the blogs I read as much as I should, but LOL day is a good reminder for me that the writers I love thrive on encouragement.

Hi Kaelah, thanks so much for stopping by! I loved Berlin. I could definitely live there :) And thanks for your kind comments about 'Instructed', I'm very glad you liked it.

Thanks Valery - for the comment, and for your prompt and incisive response to that Bindel quote in the Guardian piece. Looking forward to chatting more, here and there!

Hi Mick, it's nice to meet you! Thanks - I'm glad you're enjoying the blog :)

Thanks for the comment, it's lovely to meet you. Blogging is the best way to meet likeminded feminist kinksters :)

Happy LOL Day, Pandora! I don't manage to comment a lot these days, but I still read your blog. I hope you had a great time in Berlin and a safe trip back home. Glad that the screening of your film went so well. I've watched it (the version on your site) and liked it very much.

Hi Kaelah, thanks so much for stopping by! I loved Berlin. I could definitely live there :) And thanks for your kind comments about 'Instructed', I'm very glad you liked it.

Thanks Valery - for the comment, and for your prompt and incisive response to that Bindel quote in the Guardian piece. Looking forward to chatting more, here and there!

Hi Mick, it's nice to meet you! Thanks - I'm glad you're enjoying the blog :)

Thanks for the comment, it's lovely to meet you. Blogging is the best way to meet likeminded feminist kinksters :)

Hello again.

Love reading your blog. I'll admit, when it was quiet I became less attentive here but if there's more frequent posts (and I'll know on twitter now) then I may well be back to read (and comment) more often :-)

Thanks Valery - for the comment, and for your prompt and incisive response to that Bindel quote in the Guardian piece. Looking forward to chatting more, here and there!

Hi Mick, it's nice to meet you! Thanks - I'm glad you're enjoying the blog :)

Thanks for the comment, it's lovely to meet you. Blogging is the best way to meet likeminded feminist kinksters :)

Love the blog (and the site) I've been lurking for ages and value what is often a voice of sanity! Thanks!

Mick

Hi Mick, it's nice to meet you! Thanks - I'm glad you're enjoying the blog :)

Thanks for the comment, it's lovely to meet you. Blogging is the best way to meet likeminded feminist kinksters :)

Hi, I've commented once before but have read your blog avidly for quite a few years. I'm a feminist and also a spanko so find your views really interesting and refreshing. Thank you.

Thanks for the comment, it's lovely to meet you. Blogging is the best way to meet likeminded feminist kinksters :)

I've commented on LoL before so I'm not sure if tha means I'm no longer a lurker? But I just thought I'd say I still love your work and I've been so pleased to see your site and your politics get the exposure it deserves.

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