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What the BDSM community can teach us about consent

Posted at 18:29 on 14 Nov 2018 by Pandora / Blake

The Metro has just published a piece on What the BDSM community can teach us about consent. I was interviewed for this article last month, and I'm absolutely thrilled with how it turned out.

‘This idea that consent is a contract is really pernicious,’ Blake says. ‘Consent is revocable and ongoing, and being encouraged to change your mind is necessary for consent. By saying you’ve changed your mind, you’re helping your partner respect your boundaries.’ 

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Tags: BDSM, consent, in the news, interviews, media, workshops

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Two Femmes, Two Cocks

Posted at 21:06 on 21 Nov 2018 by Pandora / Blake

When I first came out as non-binary I realised something strange. By coming out as genderqueer, I was telling all the people who have ever been attracted to me in porn or in person that they aren't straight after all: they're queer. Usually, people get to define their own sexuality, but sorry - that's just how it is. I'm not a woman and I'm not a man, so whatever your gender, if you fancy me, you're queer now too. Congratulations!

If you're straight, look away now because this new video with Nimue Allen is the gayest thing I have ever made.

Two Femmes, Two Cocks starring Blake and Nimue Allen

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Tags: BBW, Blake, Blake Presents, blowjobs, fucking, Nimue Allen, photos, porn, queer, sex, strap-ons, tit fucking

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Pillow talk

Posted at 17:00 on 23 Nov 2018 by Pandora / Blake

I'm writing this from bed. It's comfy here: I have a pile of pillows my partner affectionately refers to as "pillow mountain". I was meant to have a fluffy blanket, but my cat has claimed it and is kneading it with a kind of orgasmic bliss. I wish I felt that good. 

Bolstered by pillows, it's time for some real talk.

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Tags: activism, capitalism, chronic illness, health, personal, radical rest, self-care, work

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A Guide to Consent

Posted at 12:14 on 28 Nov 2018 by Pandora / Blake

I'm proud to publish this online version of our consent leaflet, Getting and Giving What We Want.

This is a condensed version of some of the things we cover our consent workshop Getting and Giving What We Want, produced by Backlash. We are running another workshop in January so keep an eye out for details! My co-facilitator Felix and I had a fun challenge cutting the techniques that we teach in the workshop down to a suitable length. As we were going through the material we initially felt that it was all so important we couldn't cut any of it. It was an  informative exercise to ask ourselves, out of all of this crucial information, what is absolutely most important? - and this is what we came up with.

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Tags: Backlash, communication, consent, education, resources, workshops

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