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September Roundup

Posted at 15:00 on 6 Oct 2021 by Pandora / Blake

We’re coming into Autumn, and my schedule shows no sign of relenting. The Dreams of Spanking team is growing every day with new editors, cast and crew members, and it is so rewarding to see this group sharing my passion for the site I launched from my kitchen table so many years ago.

Patreon Posts

  • Growing into my switch self – Perhaps the biggest impact that making porn has had on my sexuality is that it gave me a reason to start switching.
  • Porn & Patriarchy: the challenges of casting male performers - I'm not short of offers. The sticky bit is finding guys who meet my criteria. I'm not asking much, or at least I don't think I am: there are thousands of women and femmes who fit the bill. And yet, there's a real dearth of masc-presenting cuties who tick all my boxes.
  • UK porn censorship: part 1 -  The government forcing me to censor myself and hide my sexuality is repressive. If I co-operated I would be complicit. Instead, I decided to take a stand.



Dreams of Spanking Scenes

  • Landlady’s Reparation  // F/F film // Nimue Allen, Pandora Blake - Another month’s rent is due, but this time landlady Nimue Allen has a confession to make: how will her tenant Pandora Blake react when the tables are turned?
  • I Watched my Boyfriend’s Judicial Strapping // Solo F film // Pandora Blake - When the judge ordered a strapping for Pandora Blake’s boyfriend, he thought it would teach them both a lesson. Little did he know how hot they’d end up finding it...
  • Sunday School // M/F film // Becci Belacqua, Stephen Lewis - Goth brat turned subby schoolgirl Rebecca Belacqua doesn’t know what she's letting herself in for when she books tuition with Stephen Lewis. Can strict rules and a whippy cane reform her in just one day
  • Defying Dominance // F/M film // Carlos Green, Pandora Blake - Carlos Green has been out too late and forgotten to text - and girlfriend Pandora Blake is not amused. Clearly, it’s time to remind him who the boss around here is!

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Tags: 2021, Dreams of Spanking, Pandora Blake, Patreon, roundup, September, Youtube

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Summer Roundup

Posted at 15:00 on 10 Sep 2021 by Pandora / Blake

Okay, it’s been a minute. It has been a whirlwind summer: lockdown easing brought increased film shoots, more social engagements, and my return to sessions after a 3-year hiatus! Here are some of my favourite releases from this summer.

Patreon Posts

Chapter 4 - Have You Tried Just Not Having Them? – Curating our fantasies for greater enjoyment, deeper self-exploration, and more intentional storytelling can be immensely rewarding. But suppressing whole swathes of our erotic theme out of shame? It’s unlikely to work - and if it does, it’ll do more harm than good.

The spanking fetish around the world - Every country on the globe contains humans who find shame, fear and aggression to be arousal intensifiers. But that doesn’t mean that their erotic fantasies will all be the same. The culture and history of a particular country also plays a part.

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Tags: Dreams of Spanking, newsletter, Patreon, roundup, sessions, shoot, summer, update, Youtube

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April Roundup

Posted at 14:00 on 1 May 2021 by Pandora / Blake

Mark April in your calendars as the month that Dreams of Spanking started to release high-quality multi-performer films three times a month! It’s the fullest schedule we’ve had since we returned from hiatus and I couldn’t be happier. Any fears I had about delegating have proved entirely fictional, as the team of freelancers around me are the reason we're able to put out so much new content.

Patreon Posts

Hands of people practising Tai Chai

Dreams of Spanking Scenes

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Tags: April, Dreams of Spanking, Pandora Blake, Patreon, roundup, Youtube

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March Roundup

Posted at 14:00 on 1 Apr 2021 by Pandora / Blake

To say March has been madness would be putting it lightly. Between arranging film shoots and night weaning, I’m in a state of chronic sleep deprivation. Editing footage and writing have been squeezed in around parenting, and I still managed to do all this!

Patreon Posts

Pandora practising Tai Chi in the grass

Dreams of Spanking Scenes

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Tags: Dreams of Spanking, kink education, march, Patreon, roundup, Youtube

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February Roundup

Posted at 15:00 on 1 Mar 2021 by Pandora / Blake

For such a short month, I sure have been busy in February! I got high-quality speakers for Christmas and have been spending a lot of my time perfecting the sound on every film and audio story. I’m self-taught in almost everything I do, and I get a lot of satisfaction from adding another skill to my arsenal. 

Patreon Posts

I ran a promotion to mark 2021 and a renewed commitment to the slogan Shame Less - kick sexual stigma and fight for social justice. All patrons who signed up by Valentine’s Day would receive an exclusive Shame Less pin. The beautiful enamel pins are in the post to their new owners as I type, and I can’t wait to see people condemning kink shaming all over the world.

A pile of Shame Less enamel pins in the colours of bi pride

Dreams of Spanking Scenes

As we fall into the rhythm of a weekly schedule, I continue to be amazed by the benefits involved in working with a team. I can delegate, I can communicate my limitations - essentially, I can take a day off and know that the ship will keep sailing! Here are the updates we released to you lovely people this month:

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Tags: Dreams of Spanking, February, Kink Education, Patreon, roundup, Shame Less, stigma, summary, Youtube

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A spanko's guide to long-distance relationships

Posted at 15:00 on 22 Dec 2020 by Pandora / Blake



I am no stranger to the difficulties of a long-distance relationship. I now live with my long-term partner and child, but there was a large chunk of my life where I lived alone and travelled to see my partners. Sometimes it was a bus ride, and sometimes a long train journey. 

I've learned a lot and I'm still continuing to learn - the pandemic has introduced new obstacles for us to overcome, and has forced us to come up with ever more creative ways to stay connected. Particularly as spankophiles, it can be challenging to feel close to your partner when your usual way to connect is taking them over your lap. As Erica Scott puts it, we have a fetish that is not exactly conducive to social distancing.

I was therefore delighted to be asked by Jillian Keenan to be involved in her educational film on long-distance dynamics. This two-parter features so many spanking celebrities it'll make you spin - Princess Kelley May, Stephen Lewis, Ariel Anderssen, Pharaoh Spanks, Madame Samantha B, Cassidy Lau, Miss Rachel, and Erica Scott. It was an honour to be featured alongside my esteemed peers in this film, and I would encourage you to check it out. You may even recognise some of them from the Dreams of Spanking catalogue...

For my contribution, I spoke about the importance of communicating about your communication. This may sound redundant, but you would be surprised how quickly dialogue can break down when you're operating in a medium that one party isn't comfortable using. 

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Tags: collaboration, educational, long-distance dynamics, Patreon, video, Youtube

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New Youtube video!

Posted at 16:47 on 8 Feb 2019 by Pandora / Blake

Now I'm pregnant, I wanted to talk about the complexities of being trans, non-binary, and having a big bump - not to mention a bigger chest... As if that wasn't complicated enough, I'm also a sex worker. I couldn't find many resources about being non-binary and pregnant, never mind a non-binary pregnant sex worker, so I thought I'd put something out there. Well, I don't know if I can call this a "resource", it's mostly me talking about why things are VERY CONFUSING in my head right now, but if you're in the same situation hopefully it'll show you're not alone (hiiii) and if you're not trans or not pregnant, maybe it will give you a bit of an insight into what it's like.

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Tags: gender, non-binary, pregnancy, sex work, trans, video, YouTube

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