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Sunday roast

Posted at 16:04 on 9 Oct 2015 by Pandora Blake

Last weekend D and I were chopping vegetables for a roast. He was halving potatoes to parboil, and I was peeling parsnips.

I felt him move closer to me. “You look visually appealing,” he said, putting his arms around my waist. He must have finished the potatoes.

Molly Malone spanked in the kitchen in 'Cupcakes'

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Tags: apron, D, domestic discipline, dominance and submission, Dreams of Spanking, hand spanking, kink, Photos

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The same journey

Posted at 21:03 on 2 Apr 2015 by Pandora Blake

Right now I feel pretty frustrated about the legal situation in the UK. I'm stressed about the consequences all this is likely to have on my life, and pessimistic about the chances of being able to successfully challenge the laws. When I'm feeling frustrated, stressed and pessimistic, to avoid lashing out at people I often curl inwards, seeking comfort and reassurance. It was in this mood that I posted the following tweets the other day:

Tags: age play, dominance and submission, kink, Princess Kelley, switching

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Friday in Berlin - XConfessions, LOVE HARD and Female Porn Shorts

Posted at 23:13 on 6 Nov 2014 by Pandora Blake

Since my last update from Berlin, Lucie Blush and Ms Naughty have both posted reports from the Porn Film Festival which are well worth reading.

Tickets for the Moviemento cinema at the Porn Film Festival Berlin 2014

On Friday I felt much better slept, and I had tickets for five screenings, but I'd already decided that only three of them were ones I really cared about: XConfessions by Erika Lust, LOVE HARD by Sensate Films, and the Female Porn Shorts screening in which Instructed was playing.

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Tags: Bright Desire, dominance and submission, Dreams of Spanking, Erika Lust, ethical porn, Fairtrade porn, Female gaze, female porn, feminist porn, Gender politics, kink, Kink activism, Lust Films, Ms Naughty, PFFB, Photos, Politics, Porn Film Festival Berlin, Sensate Films, Sites and studios, Videos

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Instructed in Berlin

Posted at 23:05 on 22 Oct 2014 by Pandora Blake

I'm typing this at the airport, waiting for my flight to Berlin. I've had five hours sleep and I can't believe I've actually made it this far and nothing's gone wrong.

This is my third international trip this year and each time I feel like I'm getting away with something naughty. Like all self-employed business owners, I pay the price for time off in advance. All the work due while I'm away needs to be done ahead of time; plus I need to earn extra pennies to pay for the trip. I can't imagine the ease of having paid leave - but then, nor can I imagine the frustration of not being in control of my own creative work. Overall it's a trade-off I'm happy with. And after not being able to afford to take holiday for most of my twenties, it feels like an unimaginable luxury.

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Tags: D, dominance and submission, Dreams of Spanking, Fairtrade porn, Female gaze, film festivals, learning curves, making a scene, Ms Naughty, PFFB, Photos, Porn Film Festival Berlin

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Spanking - the ultimate mood changer

Posted at 13:12 on 5 Sep 2014 by Pandora Blake

It was D's birthday this week. Birthday spankings aren't generally on the menu when it's his turn to be spoiled - they aren't exactly his core erotic theme. But we did both take the day off work so we could devote it to pleasures of the flesh. Good food, lots of kinky sex, and a certain amount of lounging around on the sofa... the perfect self-indulgent day.

I came to his place the night before with a bag of toys. No spanking implements, true - but we were still going to have a good time.

Birthday toys for the birthday boy

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Tags: being a sex kitty, D, domestic discipline, dominance and submission, featured photos, hand spanking, helpful tops, high heels are totally sex toys, kink, OTK Spanking, pet play, Photos

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BBW 2014, Friday - flying higher and higher

Posted at 00:23 on 2 Sep 2014 by Pandora Blake

My posts remembering Boardwalk Badness Weekend at the end of my April US tour have been a bit delayed - and everyone's about to come back from Shadow Lane and start talking all about that - but if it's not too late to pick up the thread, I still have some stories to share.

At the end of my last post, I fell asleep shortly before dawn after an incredible first night of play. But that was only the beginning - the rest of the weekend was about to get even more epic.

After five hours sleep, day two kicked off with a fun scene between me, Zoe Montana and a good friend I've played with before. The roleplay was hot and goofy by turns (sometimes both at the same time!) with our friend making the most endearing faces in his little boy role, switching wickedly between innocent schoolboy and knowing kinkster, as well as between top and bottom. Here's Zoe's lovely bottom after he and I had teamed up to turn it a fetching shade of pink:

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Tags: BBW, dominance and submission, erotic magic, kink, Performers and producers, punch play, Spanking sessions, switching, Zoe Montana

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Loving discipline with James and Korey Johnson

Posted at 19:38 on 12 Aug 2014 by Pandora Blake

My Sweet Wife - loving discipline with Korey Johnson and James Johnson at Northern Spanking

While I was staying in Los Angeles with Alex and Paul I was privileged to be present on Korey and James Johnson's first ever spanking shoot. James and Korey are a scene couple whom I have really enjoyed getting to know at spanking parties in the US over the last few years. They are married with a real life domestic discipline dynamic, in which James uses spanking and other forms of corporal punishment to correct Korey if she breaks an agreement they have made, or acts in a way that is detrimental to her own wellbeing.

Neither James nor Korey had ever appeared in a spanking video, although they both certainly have the looks for it. However they are both exhibitionists and scene players who have played a lot at spanking parties, and who both find the experience of playing in front of an audience to be very exciting. Although neither of them is interested in making spanking videos professionally, they decided that they would be interested in trying it together for the sake of the experience.

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Tags: dominance and submission, Fairtrade porn, James Johnson, Korey Johnson, Northern Spanking, otk spanking, Performers and producers, Photos, Real life punishment, Sites and studios

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New feminist porn: 'Instructed'

Posted at 20:27 on 7 Jul 2014 by Pandora Blake

I made a film, and I'm pretty damn excited about it. 'Instructed' is a collaboration between me and Ms Naughty, which was filmed at the Feminist Porn Awards this year. The shoot was attended by a BBC journalist - and that wasn't the only way this was a new experience for me. This is my most explicit video to date, exploring themes of remote dominance, anal eroticism, solo spanking and female masturbation.

Instructed: an explicit new film by Ms Naughty and Pandora Blake

I've written before about how I came up with the idea of keeping D's instructions a secret, and reading - and obeying - them live on camera. If you haven't read them already, you can find out more about the shoot in my blogposts Submissive solo shoot with Bright Desire and What will I be told to do? I'm really glad that D got involved so closely with the shoot - both in writing orders for me to follow, and in recording himself reading his instructions for me to use as a voiceover. The result is an intimate, erotic film which is as fresh and exciting for me as it was on the day of the shoot.

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Tags: Bright Desire, D, dominance and submission, Dreams of Spanking, Fairtrade porn, featured photos, Ms Naughty, Performers and producers, Photos, Politics, Sites and studios

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Sinful Sunday - Fetch!

Posted at 11:16 on 15 Jun 2014 by Pandora Blake

Ordered to fetch the paddle so he can use it on me. See, I can be a good girl ... sometimes. Full photo story here.

Sinful Sunday

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Tags: D, dominance and submission, Dreams of Spanking, kink, Photos, Sinful Sunday, wooden paddle

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An ecstatic beating

Posted at 22:20 on 27 May 2014 by Pandora Blake

I got out of the shower and took D's hands. In the wording that invokes our relationship, I told him that I would really like a flogging, "...on my back and legs and body. Does that sound like something you might enjoy?"

"Yes," he smiled, "I think I can manage that."

I lay face down on the bed, buzzing with happy excitement while he assembled floggers. He gave me a choice, and I picked the ones that looked like they had the most thud. For the last two days I'd been directing a Dreams of Spanking shoot that crackled with energy and joy, and I hadn't been beaten once. Time to redress the balance.

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Tags: breast punishment, breast slapping, cunt punishment, D, dominance and submission, flogger, kink, nipple clamps, strap

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