Well, it could be worse. :-) Most of the comments I get on Fetlife are from guys who profess to love large asses. I have no problem with guys liking large asses, but I fail to understand why they think this should be the first thing they should tell me, or that I will find this comment at all flattering. (Hint: telling a woman she has a beautiful ass is a much better idea!) Of course, to be fair, my ass is pretty much the only part I show on Fetlife, so how could they know anything more about me?! I remember being very nervous about writing to spanking performers when I was first exploring the spanking blogosphere, and I was always shocked when people like you and The Artist Formerly Known As Niki Flynn took the time to write back encouragingly. Now, thanks to FetLife, I understand why. Mere courtesy and an interest in the person, as can be demonstrated by paying attention to that person's writings, definitely make an e-mail or message stand out from background...

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