Fantastic piece, and I think it touches on what I enjoy most about Nimue's work... but also find most challenging. I've been roleplaying online with women who told me they really wanted body-shaming insults/humiliation and/or racial verbal abuse and, like you, that just isn't my thing but I found it is very easy to (as you describe) to channel the hatred of "the haters" and pretend to be that evil. I think there's a lot of this in the way that people engage with media in general, not just porn/kink play, but movies, computer games, and so on, and the moralist drive to censor it doesn't understand that people need safe ways to engage with the Dark Side.

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